Need a mantra to help you believe in yourself? Try mine. “I can do it, I can do it, I can do it!” It’s too simple, you tell me. But saying it and actually doing it are two different things. The first one is easy, the latter a totally different story.

Know the Real You

Have a one on one with yourself. List down questions and answer them truthfully. Who am I? What are my interests? What field am I good at? What skills do I possess? In which areas do I consider myself as ineffective or weak? How do I know I am weak at these? Have I tried these yet? Have I done anything to improve any of my shortcomings?

Asking these questions will aid you in understanding who you really are, from what you want to where you’re good at. Remember to stay honest in your answers as it will eventually affect the way you see yourself. You shouldn’t claim to be good at something you’re not nor should you be too humble to admit your talents. It might help to keep in mind that this list is only for your eyes! You can brag all you want as long as it’s true!

Focus on the Positive!

After realizing where you’re good at, direct your efforts to maximizing these. Do not limit yourself or set a ceiling. This will just bound you from achieving more. As for your weaknesses, make an effort to improve but never dwell on these. Do not let the negativity pull you down. Know that what you lack, some people possess and vice versa.

Be Your Own Cheerleader

Go ahead and give yourself a pep talk! Don’t wait for other people to praise you before you feel good about yourself. No need to say it out loud for others to hear. In your mind, shout out loud, “I am so good at this!” or “I can definitely pull this off!” Doing this whenever you start doubting your capabilities will give you an extra boost.

People usually say you become what you think you are. Perhaps true, perhaps not. But would you risk it? Knowing your worth will cost you nothing but a better way of seeing things, of doing work, and of living life. It puts you in control rather than letting others run your life. Keep the mantra. Believe that you can, no matter what.